Pregnant and Scared: Your Options

If you just saw a positive test and your first thought was “I’m scared,” please know that you aren't alone. It’s a lot to take in at once, especially if you feel like you have no support or you’re worried about how you’re going to pay your bills.

You don’t have to have all the answers right now, and you don’t have to figure this out by yourself. You can get support today from someone who will just listen to what’s on your mind—no judgment and no pressure.

Why an Unexpected Pregnancy Can Feel Even Scarier in Texas

The laws in Texas can make an unplanned pregnancy feel like a ticking clock. It’s easy to feel like you’re running out of time to make a choice or like your options have been taken away before you’ve even had a second to breathe.

Even with the current laws, you still have rights and you still have choices. Getting help is legal and confidential. Whether you feel completely alone or you just need to know what resources actually exist near you, there are people here who can help you understand your rights in plain English.

What Are My Options If I’m Pregnant in Texas and Don’t Know What to Do?

When you’re in a panic, it helps to look at each path one at a time. You have the right to look at these neutrally:

• Parenting: If you want to be a mom but you're scared of the costs, there are Texas programs like WIC and local groups that provide medical care, food, and baby supplies.
• Temporary Guardianship: If you aren't ready for adoption but know you can’t parent right now, you can look into temporary guardianship. This ensures the baby is safe while you take the time you need to get back on your feet.
• Adoption: If you know you aren't in a place to be a parent, adoption is an option that allows you to choose a family who is ready to provide the stable home you want for a child.

How Adoption Works in Texas

Adoption isn't something that just "happens" to you. In Texas, you are the one in the driver's seat.

First, you talk to an agency just to get your questions answered. If you decide to move forward, you make the plan. You decide how you want things to go at the hospital and how much you want to stay in touch with the family later.

You look through profiles of pre-screened parents until you find the ones that feel right. In Texas, under Family Code § 162.025, a licensed agency can also legally help you pay for your rent, groceries, and medical bills while you are pregnant.

Can I Get Help If I’m Pregnant and Scared Right Now?

Yes. You don't have to wait for an appointment or a business day. If you’re overwhelmed and need to talk at 3:00 AM, there is someone available to answer.

Adoption specialists offer 24/7 counseling. This isn’t a sales pitch for adoption; it’s a safe place to talk through your fears about your relationship, your money, or your future. Sometimes just knowing someone is there to listen makes the situation feel a little less heavy.

Is Adoption in Texas Confidential and Safe?

One of the biggest fears is that people will judge you or find out about your business. In Texas, adoption is private and highly regulated.

Licensed agencies have to protect your identity by law. You get to choose how much privacy you want. You can choose a "closed" adoption if you want total privacy, or an "open" adoption if you want to stay in touch. Working with a licensed agency ensures your legal rights are protected and that any family you meet has passed a deep background check.

How American Adoptions of Texas Supports Women Who Are Scared

We help women who are in the middle of this panic every day. We know that being "pregnant and scared" usually means you are carrying weight that is too much for one person.

We provide a clear path and financial relief. We can manage your pregnancy-related expenses legally according to Texas Penal Code § 25.08 so you can focus on your health instead of your bank account. Because we work with so many families, you have a better chance of finding the exact match for what you want. We are here for you before, during, and long after the adoption is over.

You Don’t Have to Decide Everything Today

If you are thinking, “Can I really do this?” or “What if I can’t parent?”—the answer is that you have time to figure it out. Your only job today is to take a breath.

You have the power to choose a future that feels right for you. Whether you need to vent to a confidential person or you want to start looking at families, we are ready to listen.

Get started today to understand your rights and take the first step toward a plan that gives you peace.

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