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Can You Choose an Adoptive Family in a Different State? [Widening Your Search]

If you’re searching for a couple to adopt your baby, your search doesn’t have to be limited to the state you live in. That’s because out of state adoption with our agency, and this article has everything you need to know.

If you’re asking yourself “Can people from another state adopt my baby?” the answer is absolutely! If you work with a national adoption agency, you won’t be restricted to couples in your state.  American Adoptions is a national adoption agency, which means we work with waiting families from all across the country. This means you’ll be able to find the perfect family to raise your child in a shorter amount of time, no matter which state they live in.

If you’re wondering how Texas interstate adoptions work, we can help. Your adoption specialist will guide you through the process to ensure that all your bases are covered. To get more information about choosing an adoptive family in a different state, you can contact us now or call 1-800-ADOPTION to speak with a specialist.

Keep reading below to learn five steps to completing an interstate adoption in Texas.

How Can People from a Different State Adopt my Baby in Texas?

When it comes to adoption, as the expectant parents, you get to call the shots. You’ll be able to create your adoption plan and choose the family you feel is perfect to raise your child.  If the family you have your heart set on is located in a different state, here’s how the adoption process might look for you:

Step 1. Choose the Adoptive Family

If you work with a national adoption agency like American Adoptions, it’s likely that the hopeful adoptive family that catches your eye will be from a different state. Your adoption specialist will be able to help you navigate your out of state adoption.

If you know beforehand that you want your baby’s potential adoptive parents to be from a different state, your adoption specialist will only show you the adoptive family profiles of hopeful adoptive parents from out of state that match your preferences.

From here, you can decide which prospective adoptive family you feel is the best match to raise your child. This choice will always be yours to make.

Step 2. Get to Know the Adoptive Family

Once you’ve chosen an adoptive family for your interstate adoption, you’ll have the opportunity to get to know them before the baby is born. Your adoption specialist will coordinate a conference call between you and the hopeful adoptive parents. During this call you’ll be able to get to know each other and you’ll be able to ask them any questions you have. During this call, you can also discuss what kind of pre-placement contact you’re comfortable with.

You can communicate via text, phone calls, emails and even in-person visits. If you want to meet the prospective adoptive family in person, your adoption specialist can help coordinate this as well. An in-person visit is a chance for you to get to know the hopeful couple on a deeper level so that you can determine if they really are the best fit for you and your baby. Most hopeful adoptive parents are eager to meet you and take this opportunity to get to know you and your child.

Step 3. Meet the Adoptive Family at the Hospital

On the big day of your delivery, the hopeful adoptive family will meet you at the hospital to complete the placement. For an out-of-state adoption in Texas, hopeful adoptive parents are usually made aware by the adoption agency that they must be prepared to make the trip to the hospital at any time, no matter where the baby is being born. The adoptive parents will always travel to you, so you will never have to make a long trip while pregnant. How involved you want the hopeful adoptive family to be involved in the birth will be up to you and what you included in your hospital plan.

Your hospital plan will outline things such as if you want the prospective adoptive parents to be in the delivery room with you, who you want to hold the baby first, who gets to name the baby, etc. You can reach out to the hopeful adoptive parents in the time before the due date to make sure that they’re prepared for when the big day arrives.

Placing your baby for adoption is one the hardest things you may ever do. It’s also one of the bravest and most selfless decisions you could make. You are giving your baby the opportunity to have the best life imaginable. Seeing your baby in the arms of the loving adoptive parents, knowing that they will love your baby with everything they have is will make it all worth it.

Step 4. Spending time with the Family and Your Baby

A key part of an out-of-state adoption in Texas is that the waiting family fills out the paperwork for the Interstate Compact Placement of Children (ICPC). This paperwork allows for your state and the home state of the prospective adoptive family to ensure both states’ adoption laws are being abided by.  This is a precaution purely to ensure that the adoption is safe and ethical.

The ICPC process can take up to two weeks to complete. During the wait, you can spend more time with the adoptive family if you feel comfortable enough to do so. This allows you more time to get to know them and see how they interact with your baby.

Childbirth is exhausting, and the emotional toll of adoption can be a lot to take in. If you do not feel equipped to spend more time with the adoptive family and your baby, this is perfectly valid. But, if this is something you’re comfortable with, it could put your mind at ease seeing your baby with their parents who will give them all the love and support they deserve.

Step 5. Post-Placement Contact

If you’re wondering “Can people from another state adopt my baby?” you might be worried about being able to stay in contact after placement. Through open adoption, you can keep in touch with your child and their adoptive parents. This contact could be in the form of texts, calls, emails, photos, video chats and in-person visits.

Open adoptions have been proven to be beneficial for everyone involved in the adoption triad. You will be able to find comfort in knowing your child is happy and healthy, the adoptive parents will be able to speak openly about the adoption and your child will never have to wonder about where they came from.

Next Steps

If you’ve asked yourself “Can people from a different state adopt my baby?” and are eager to pursue an interstate adoption, this is a wonderful way to expand your options. As a national adoption agency, American Adoptions is the ideal adoption specialist to help you on your out-of-state adoption journey.

To get more information on interstate adoption, contact us online today or call 1-800-ADOPTION.


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